Carry a mobile phone with you to the job. At the start of the booking call someone (a friend, maybe a relative or even your own answering machine). This will let the client know that someone else knows where you are and that your whereabouts can be traced. Remember to keep the last position on your calling list to be someone who can help you very quickly.

 If you are providing a service to a client at a private home, drive by the house first to check for signs that might suggest “all is not right”. For example, if there are several cars in the drive, or you hear loud music coming from the house, or you see more than one person in or around the house. If you feel something is wrong ring the client on your mobile to discuss your concerns or to cancel the booking.

Don’t take cash or ID with you to the job.

Assert yourself in the first 10 minutes of meeting the client. From the moment you are alone with the client it’s important to take control and stay in control of the situation. Be polite and friendly – it’s often the best way to gain control – even when the client is behaving like a jerk.

Clearly explain the service to the client; what it will involve, how long it will last and how much it will cost.

Explain to the client that you always use condoms for oral, vaginal and anal sex, and when using sex toys.

Ask for payment BEFORE you provide the service.

When the client pays, give the money to your driver or put it in a safe place. For example, in an inner zipped pocket or some other safe place away from wandering hands. Be aware of where your money is at all times.

Let the client know that there is someone waiting outside for you, even if you are not using a driver, for example take the money outside saying you are taking them to the driver.

At the end of the job, count your cash to make sure it is all there. Do not count your cash in front of the client. It is best not to accept cheques from clients as it is very easy to pass or be fooled by a bad or bogus cheque and as a result you may not be paid.

Look through the whole house to check for other people, signs of danger and exits. You could say, “this is a lovely house, would you mind giving me a tour?” Or you could ask to go to the toilet and then

have a quick look around. Be alert at all times.

Don’t accept a drink that has already been opened or that you have not seen being made. It’s not difficult for an “Ugly Mug” to slip a drug (like rhohypnol) into the drink he’s fixed for you.

Never be afraid to say NO if necessary. Remember that if you find a particular client distasteful, abusive or disrespectful, no amount of money is worth having to service them. Warn that you will leave if the client gets too rough.

Be tactful – especially if the situation is becoming nasty. Keep your cool and be honest – don’t buy into

the client’s bullshit – this should help to diffuse the situation.

If you drive yourself, park your car so only the back can be seen from the house (for example behind a

tree or some bushes) when leaving the car turn around and wave like you would wave to someone waiting for you.

Pens, screech whistles and breath sprays can make good weapons, and may allow you the opportunity to get away.

Don’t carry knives or guns with you. These can be used against you!

Have your belongings near the door in a pile so you can grab them if you need to get away quickly.

Make sure you are not under the influence of alcohol or drugs when visiting clients. They can affect your judgment and ability to defend yourself.

Never ever go to an outcall booked via txt or email. Chances are this will only be an idiotic joke and you will waste your time and money.

If you sense something’s wrong, get out! Say something like, “I’ve forgotten my worker’s bag and have to get it from the car. Or “I have to let my driver know you’re home and everything is OK”, and then leave.

Safety Tips for Escorts While Providing The Service

 

When it comes to being in danger or even detecting an STD, TRUST YOUR INSTINCTS!!

If you have to defend yourself, do it with the intention of hurting. It is a good idea to do a self-defense course. If a client becomes aggressive or violent let him know you can trace him through his credit card, address, car registration number, etc. Explain to the client that it is not illegal to do sex work, and that you

will not hesitate to report him to the police.

If you are doing a fantasy service, before you start make sure that you know what you are in for and that the client knows condoms will be used. It is a good idea to get a written consent from the client when performing BDSM or any sort of spanking and domination.

Check your client for STDs, especially for crabs, sores, herpes blisters and warts. Condoms do not protect you 100% against these.

Do not use massage oils as lube. They break down the condom rubber. Use water-based lube such as wet stuff or KY jelly and wipe off any massage oil before you put the condom on.

Use your own condoms, not your client’s.

Be aware that Nonoxynol 9 condoms cause medical problems for some workers (Nonoxynol 9 can remove nail polish so it is best not to use it on regular basis).

Putting on a condom with your mouth is useful if the client does not want to use them – this can eroticize condoms.

If you use xylocaine, be aware of the risks. It is not advisable to use xylocaine for penetrative sex. Due to the numbing effect, you are less likely to feel any injury or become aware that a condom has broken. Xylocaine can numb the client’s penis, and make it difficult for him to cum.

If the client does not take no for an answer about using condoms, suggest another activity such as Spanish sex (between the breasts) or hand relief with lube.

If the client refuses to use condoms, leave!

You don’t have to do anything you don’t want to.

If you are feeling stressed, your work will suffer. Take some time off to relax.

If you have a bad experience with a client, visit our website to make an “Ugly Mug” report. Filing one of our reports will let other workers know about the client.

If the client is visiting you in your flat, make sure all the valuable things are hidden and there is no cash left on sight.

If no one is around, turn on TV or radio in one of the rooms for the client to know that there is someone in the house with you.

It is always a good idea to install a CCTV in your hall, so the client knows that he is being recorded while entering and leaving your flat/house.

Don’t leave the client unattended, unless in the toilet.

Don’t allow using drugs, alcohol or poppers in your house. This is very risky and can cause a lot of problems.

When you hear that the client is drunk or in a group of people don’t give him your address.

Don’t give your full address, give the street name and the Rest of the details when you see a client ad when you are sure you want to see him.

Don’t hesitate to call the police when necessary.

Extra Safety Tips for Escort Agency Workers

Let your agency know what service you will or won’t perform.

Find out how your agency operates with bounced cheques and credit card fraud.

Always ring the agency when you leave or extend a booking. You should have a code between yourself

and the receptionist to use if you are in trouble.

Make sure you approve your pictures the agency uploads on the websi

Tips When Using Drivers

If you are going to service a client, consider employing a driver. Drivers can be very useful in helping you out of difficult situations. They can be used for safety, convenience, and travelling long distances between towns.

Ask the driver to accompany you to the client’s door. This is a good way to get the client to pay up front.

You can then give your money to the driver for safe keeping.

If your booking is in a hotel or motel let the driver know the room number where the service will be taking place.

Make sure your driver waits while you are providing the service.

Use a driver that you know and trust.

Arrange for the driver to knock on the client’s door at the end of the booking.

Tips For Drivers

You are being paid by the escort to do a good job. This means you are there for security as well as

transport.

Do not leave after you have dropped the worker at the job. Wait until the worker has finished providing the service.

Be prepared to assist the worker if she needs you.

Do not hassle the worker or expect a free service from her.

Respect the worker and follow her wishes on the job.

Know the time when the job is to finish. If the worker doesn’t come out by the agreed time, you should go and see if everything is all right.

Leave the steering wheel lock off, in case you need to make a quick get away.

You may need to defend yourself and or the worker against a violent client (even your handbag can be a good weapon).

Have a code between yourself and the worker to signal if she is in trouble. For example, movement of

the bedroom curtains.